Shailene Woodley is sharing some candid details about her sex life and how she’s had bad sex in more than one relationship.
The 29-year-old Divergent actress wrote a column for Leo’s “Ask Her” section. She responded to a question from a reader that asked, “From a woman’s perspective, if the sex is not great but the relationship is thriving, do you call it quits or work on it?”
Shailene definitely was able to relate to the reader.
“Oy … I have been here. And to be quite honest, it has happened more than once in my life. Listen, I hope for all our sakes that we have had the kind of sex that leaves us f–king hungry and full all at once,” Shailene started off the column. “Where the beginning has no end, and the end has no beginning. Where every. single. primal. instinct. had its way … how it wanted it, where it wanted it, when it wanted it. Because that sh-t is the real magic. It’s an alchemy our minds cannot create. And it is … everything.”
Shailene then offered some advice from her perspective. She said, “All I can say is, from my perspective as a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say it, honesty and transparency are everything. If you don’t feel safe in communication with your partner, then chances are, you may never be able to cultivate a truly connective sex life. And, if you do feel safe, then talk about your needs. Whether they are being met or not. Ask your partner about theirs.”
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