FOR most people kissing is a big part of their romantic relationships, but that isn’t the case for this couple who have been together for almost two years.
Kaytlin O’Neall says that she and her boyfriend have not kissed once during their relationship, adding that people can be so judgemental about this.
Posting to TikTok she says that can get really judgemental about her decision, with people questioning her and telling her that kissing isn’t really that big a deal and she just do it.
She’s also received a lot of comments from people suggesting that her boyfriend is gay, or that they’re actually just friends, or “friends without benefits” as one commenter referred to them.
Explaining the couple’s decision, Kaytlin says she decided she wanted to wait till marriage to kiss a year before she started dating her current boyfriend.
Prior to this she had already decided to wait until marriage to have sex, due to religious reasons, but she was unsure on other aspects of romantic relationships.
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After praying, she says: “I ultimately landed on I don’t want to kiss because I wanted to save that for my future husband.”
“I looked at kissing, and I have always viewed it as a very intimate thing, and for me personally I felt it wasn’t something I have to save but I wanted to.”
Before the two decided to start dating they had a sit-down conversation about their own beliefs and convictions about romantic relationships where they both said they wanted to wait until marriage to kiss.
Responding to the people saying they’re just friends, Kaytlin’s boyfriend Drew says: “We were best friends and then we fell in love.
“Everything that we do is to protect and to look forward to more in the future.”
The pair then clarify that this was a mutual decision, not one they one of them is imposing on the other.
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Kaytlin says that she shared her story to show other people that you can do things differently if you want, adding:
“You do not need to have a relationship to the standards of what the world says your relationship has to look like, and it can still be happy and balanced and prosperous.”
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