A REDDIT user has shared that her friend was completely opposed to her wearing a suit to her wedding.

After the wedding, she apparently received a text that was even more unbelievable.

Posting to the bridezillas forum on Reddit, a woman shared that her best friend of many many years had got engaged, and immediately asked her to be a bridesmaid.

The woman said she was "thrilled for about 0.2 seconds" until her friend said “Ha! Now I get to make you dress girly!”

Her friend had a list of requirements for the bridesmaids which included a dress and heels.

She listed off the rest of the requirements: "I had to grow my hair to at least bob length. I had to dye my hair. I had to get a tan (fake or sunbed) and I definitely had to use body make up to cover all my tattoos."

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Next, she shared something that to her was a "gut-wrencher."

"Anyone who knows me knows I am an absolute tomboy who feels deeply uncomfortable wearing dresses etc. But hey it’s the bride's big day, right? I offered to do all except grow my hair," she said.

"Not. Good. Enough. Apparently, I would RUIN HER PHOTOS with my crap short hair."

The woman shared that arguments ensued as a result. There were multiple texts and group chats that were telling her she was being stubborn, and it was "for one day" and she should "suck it up."

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Around the time of all the drama, her dad was unfortunately diagnosed with a terminal illness. "We mutually agreed my dad was my priority and I stepped down from bridesmaid to guest," she said.

Her friend, the bride, then asked her what she and her girlfriend would be wearing to the wedding, and she replied that they had tailor-made suits from a wedding last year and they would be "perfect."

Her friend told her that she didn’t want everyone staring at the "two lesbians in suits" and that everyone would be talking about them and apparently taking attention away from her.

"I was gobsmacked. [Girlfriend] refused to even go. I told [the] bride unless she was telling all the guests what to wear she could f**k right off.

"I went to the wedding (didn’t want to be the asshole who didn’t show up tbh). It went swimmingly. An absolutely grand affair with no expense spared," she said.

"I left after the first dance to get home to my kid (had been there for 8 hours at this point!) and was told the next day that at the end of the party the bride was sobbing that I left early and ruined her day.

"She also texted me to tell me the money I had gifted her was nowhere near the cost of hosting me.

"So we don’t talk anymore," she concluded.

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