DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife is having physiotherapy with “the cutest masseur in town” and it’s driving me crazy.
We have been married for six years, have a three-year-old daughter and we’re trying for another baby.
I love her more than anything but her weekly sessions with this medic are making me lose my mind.
I’m 34, she’s 31 and this man is 38. Recently she was cycling, fell off and injured her hip badly.
So now she has sessions with this physiotherapist.
Because of her injury she apparently has to be treated in her knickers.
She said she might try and fix him up with her single best friend and I heard her raving about him to her.
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Normally she is the one who gets jealous. I’ve never felt as irrational as this.
I don’t know what has come over me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You obviously love your wife very much.
And although you’ve never experienced this sort of insecurity before, the nature of this intimate treatment is playing on your mind.
There is no harm in letting your wife know you’re looking forward to her hip being better and that you’re not 100 per cent comfortable with the sessions.
I’m sure she will reassure you that there is nothing to worry about.
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