DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my girlfriend’s mum died, she’s been finding fault with everything I say or do.
She’s not like that with her mates. She saves all her criticism for me.
We’re 18 and have been together for two years.
Losing her mum hit her hard, but I’ve tried to be there for her.
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She’s just so distant and unaffectionate.
It’s making me question whether I want to stay in the relationship.
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DEIDRE SAYS: When people are hurting, they are sometimes mean to those closest to them.
Your girlfriend is using you as her punch bag because she feels that as you love her, it’s safe to do so – but it’s now pushing you away.
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