DEAR DEIDRE MY partner had a list of more than 40 women on his laptop.

He told me they were porn stars but I checked and they are not – these are just ordinary women.

They all have Instagram accounts and they are all friends of our friends, though he doesn’t actually follow any of them.

He’s 35 and I’m 31. Until now, I thought we shared a great relationship. Now I am convinced he set up an Instagram account to find a new woman and this was his hit list.

I can’t trust him. I’m not sleeping. I even contacted a couple of the women to ask if they knew my partner but they both said no.

I have no confidence. I had a baby last year and I put on four stone. I’m trying to shift the weight but it isn’t easy.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You have to talk to him. My e-leaflet Your Relationship MoT will help.

Tell him you are still anxious about what his list was for. Ask him what you can do to improve your relationship.

Has he felt left out because of the birth of your baby? Has your sex life resumed now? Can you do more together, such as exercising?

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