I had sex with a guy before our first date – then he ended it

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD sex with a guy before we even went on our first date – but he then ended it.

I’m a woman of 30. I joined a dating site and started talking to a man aged 32. He was just out of a relationship.

For hours on end we chatted and wanted to develop things.

We had a date planned but I spontaneously went to see him.

The chemistry was explosive face-to-face. My body and soul ached for him.

We ended up in bed before going out for dinner.

We then spent a weekend together at my place and he was passionate and funny.

He went home and I texted him, asking how he felt about our future.

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But he called me back and said: “What do you want me to say? That you’re my girlfriend? My wife? You’re overthinking everything.”

He then said I reminded him of his ex and we were over. I’m heartbroken.

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DEAR DEIDRE

THAT RINGS A BELL

AT A DISTANCE

DEIDRE SAYS: I’m sorry. He may have wanted a relationship initially but it might have seemed too much, too soon for him.

However, his aggressive reaction to your message tells you a lot about his character.

I would suggest you’ve had a lucky escape.

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