DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE having a girlfriend, I am always looking at other girls I fancy, to catch their eye.
I act just like I used to when I was single.
I’m 21 and my girlfriend is 18. We’ve been together for a year.
This is a first relationship for us both. She isn’t the best-looking but gives me her all, which made me look past this.
Yet we have argued more and more as the months have gone by. I now don’t fancy her like I did. It’s been playing on my mind.
If I’m out with my mates I feel like I’m single, and I now wonder if I’m only with my girlfriend because I want to be in a relationship and not feel lonely.
I’m dying to get back on Tinder and meet someone I really fancy.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If your heart is no longer in this relationship, you should not stay.
For you, at least, it sounds as if it’s run its course, in which case it’s better to be honest.
It’s normal to try out different relationships at your age, and your girl-friend deserves better than to be treated as a security blanket.
Initiate that difficult conversation and say it’s been great but it’s time for you both to move on.
My e-leaflet Ending A Relationship will help you find the right words.
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