DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE watching pornography which shows women being degraded and abused. But I feel so bad about it later.
I’m a man of 48 and regularly watch porn for relief.
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I’m single, don’t have female friends and my mother died five years ago so I don’t ever talk to any women.
The porn I enjoy is where men humiliate and abuse women. It really turns me on.
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But when the film finishes, I feel so bad about watching this sort of stuff.
I don’t know why I’m into it.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Part of the turn-on for you is to do with power and domination.
It does not necessarily mean you want to act out these scenes in reality.
But, as you know, many women in these films don’t appear of their own free will – which is no doubt why you feel guilty after watching.
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