I thought I'd found a great guy but now he's having a baby with his girlfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: A GUY I had a real connection with is expecting a baby with his girlfriend. I’m absolutely crushed.

I’m a woman of 31. This guy used to drink in the pub where I worked before the pandemic. We lost touch but he reappeared recently.


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He told me I was stunning and he was extremely attracted to me. He said he was single though I knew he had a girlfriend.

He told me we couldn’t deny our feelings and kept asking me to go to his flat. I refused but gave him my phone number.

He said he would call but in the next breath said he couldn’t because his head was messed up. I waited eight months for him. Seeing his girlfriend announce her pregnancy on Facebook was devastating.

I want to fall in love and have a family. I’m so lonely.

DEIDRE SAYS: He deceived you, so how could you ever really trust him? Besides, he would only ever offer you part-time love. You are best off without this player in your life.

You have plenty of time and this frees you up to meet a man who will offer you 100 per cent.

My support pack Finding The Right Partner For You will help you avoid making the same mistake again.

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