DEAR DEIDRE: THERE is a fantasy I have – to get another man to watch while my wife and I have sex.
I want to share this with her but I am not sure what she would think of the idea.
I’m 39 and my wife is 37. We’ve been happily married for 12 years. I would like this man to be much older, perhaps in his fifties or sixties.
I also imagine my wife dancing with this man, giving him a lap dance while I watch.
But I don’t know how I’d even go about setting this up and I am not certain of my wife’s reaction either. Is this a normal fantasy?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Just don’t go there. You will be asking for trouble as soon as you involve outsiders in your sex life.
Most women see sex as something special they only share with someone they love. She may wonder how much you really care for her if you want to share her with someone else.
Brighten up the sex within your relationship instead. My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex has lots of ideas – for two.
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