My boyfriend is addicted to porn and only lasts five minutes in bed with me – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE to wait months for my boyfriend to feel like having sex with me.

Then, when he does, it only lasts five minutes.

It has been like this for more than a year now. We have been together for two years.

I have tried to make myself sexy for him but nothing works. He says I am not feminine enough or too fat.

I know that he watches a lot of porn.

I love him and he says he loves me, too. I want us to marry and have children but I am already 35 and he is 39.

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DEIDRE SAYS: The porn is giving him unrealistic ideas of normal female body shapes and blunting his appetite for real sex.

Maybe you both need to realise it is normal for men to last just a few minutes during real-life intercourse.

Tell him there must be changes for the relationship to last. Ask him to avoid looking at any porn for three months, say, then see how you both feel.

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