My boyfriend won't put pictures of me on his Instagram because I'm fat

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner won’t show photographs of me on his social media pages because I’m fat.

I know that’s what it is because he’s constantly saying to me “you’ve let yourself go”.


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He used to be proud of me but now he’s totally self-obsessed and is constantly worried about what others think of him.

He’s never wrong – it’s always me – whatever the argument.

We split up for a while because our sex life dried up. I’d lost my libido, but my partner said it was because of my weight gain.

He has said he doesn’t want to be “with a fat girl” as it spoils his image.

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What’s worrying is that he’s blocked me on his social media – I don’t know what he’s up to. He might be talking to other girls.

He’s 30 and I’m 23. I love him.

DEIDRE SAYS: Why would you love somebody who says hurtful things to you? This isn’t love.

He’s showing traits of narcissism and you don’t deserve to be with someone who only thinks about his own ego.

If you want to lose weight, that is up to you but don’t let anyone else tell you you’re not good enough.

My pack called Addictive Love may help you to see this man for what he is – selfish and controlling.

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