My wife's size is making sex awkward and now I can't last long enough in bed

She’s 29 and I’m 32.

My wife is a lovely person but so overweight it makes sex awkward for me.

We do it on average just every two weeks so I feel like I should make it great.

The major problem is that I last for a minute or so and then it’s all done.

You don’t have to tell me it isn’t long enough but I don’t know what to do.

My wife is very sensitive on the subject of her weight.

It’s not that she isn’t attractive, just not very mobile in bed.

DEIDRE SAYS: Infrequent sex can mean sexual tension builds up and it’s that which is making you finish too fast.

My e-leaflet How Men Can Last Longer explains self-help but your wife’s weight seems to be part of the cause.

If it affects her mobility then her health is at risk.

Tell your wife you’re worried for her and she must see her GP.

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