IF YOU are a young mum, you may have experienced judgement at one point in your life.
Whether that’s someone commenting on your age or a person giving you a nasty look when you are out with your child – it's not nice.
20-year-old Annais Bolton is mum to one-year-old daughter Mabel-Maeve and recently revealed that everyone wants to be her friend until they find out about her unique parenting style – she goes clubbing, allows screen time whenever and spoils her daughter.
But now, Annais has explained that not only do people judge her parenting style, but they also judge her for being a young mum.
Annais revealed that she regularly gets comments from older women about her being a young mother, with some saying some very rude and offensive things.
The mum-of-one took to TikTok to reveal the comments she gets and it’s left us very shocked.
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Annais uploaded her video on “Comments I get as a young mum” with the caption ‘The last one I hear too often’.
The comments Annais regularly gets include: ‘Was she an accident?’
‘Bet you’re a single mum’.
‘Bet you’re on benefits’.
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‘Why didn’t you get an abortion?’.
‘You don’t look old enough to be a mum’.
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Annais made light of the annoying situation by making a joke at the comments, but we can imagine that it must be very hurtful to have people say such things to you.
People can clearly relate to Annais’ video, as it has quickly racked up 82.4k views and 6,130 likes.
TikTok users rushed to the comments to agree with Annais, as many shared their experiences of being a young mum too.
One person said: “The “you don’t look old enough” ones are the worst. How old am I meant to look?”
Another added: “I get this all the time, on the school run I always get those mums look me down.”
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A third commented: “Me and my partner always get “are you still with the dad/mum” just because we are young parents.”
Someone else agreed: “Yes so true.”
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