My toxic mother-in-law wore an almost identical gown to mine at my wedding – then she tried to gaslight me too | The Sun

A BRIDE was left fuming when her mother-in-law turned up to her wedding wearing an almost identical dress to her own.

Jasmine took to TikTok to share a video which featured a snap from her nuptials, showing her husband standing in the middle of her and his mother.


"MIL shows up to our wedding wearing a literal wedding gown," she wrote over the top.

And while Jasmine looked stunning in her lacy white dress, which she teamed with a veil and bouquet, her mother-in-law opted for an incredibly similar gown.

Her white lacy dress was also full-length, and featured a flared hem.

And she even teamed it with a wrist corsage.

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Jasmine protected her mother-in-law's privacy by putting an emoji over her face in the picture, but made her feelings clear by adding hashtags including #toxicmil and #milwearingwhite.

In other videos on TikTok explaining the situation, Jasmine said that on the day, she and her husband were both oblivious to what she was wearing.

"We were so focused on it being our wedding day and wanting to have such a good time, and we are in love with each other, that what she was wearing didn’t phase us," she said.

"It wasn’t until after the fact, when we were looking through the pictures the following days, that we really took it in and were like, ‘Wow, she’s wearing the same dress’.

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"And that’s when I started to get mad."

They didn't reach out to her for nine months after the wedding – much to the woman's bemusement.

"She was shocked to hear it was because of her dress choice," Jasmine said.

"She had no idea that we were upset with her about the dress.

"And that’s when she tried to gaslight us and tell us it was a cream-coloured, gold sequinned dress.

"I’m not blind, and neither is everybody I know.

"That was a white gown, it was absolutely a white dress – a sequinned, lace, mermaid-style dress, like mine.

"She continued to plead ignorance and that she didn’t know and didn’t realise she was doing anything wrong.

"It hurts my soul. It ruined my whole day. It ruined all the pictures on my day.

"All I can think about when I think about my wedding is the dumb b**ch who had my dress on."

While she sent Jasmine an apology text after the wedding, following which she thought they might be able to "move on", things were inflamed once again two months later when she sent out a Christmas card on the front of which was a picture of all of them together at the wedding.

From the videos, it seems as though Jasmine and her husband are no longer in touch with his mother.

"She would’ve been told to leave. Absolutely not," one person commented on the video.

"As a boy mom this literally blows my mind. I would NEVER," another added.

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"A lady did this at my dad’s/step mom’s wedding," a third commented.

"We photoshopped her dress to brown in all the pics lol."

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