Husband has secret porn addiction and does not want sex even when I dress up – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE tried dressing up in sexy lingerie but I can’t make my husband excited. Is this because of his habit of looking at porn?

We’ve been married for three years and it seemed like he wasn’t attracted to me once the honeymoon shine had worn off.


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We had sex regularly but there was no passion from him.

He’s 31 and I’m 28. I discovered last year that he has a secret addiction to porn.

We had a big row and he claims that he’s stopped using it but the sex hasn’t really improved. He gets off me as soon as he’s done.

I feel like the sex is no fun for him now that he’s given up porn. What triggered his secret addiction?

DEIDRE SAYS: It could have been due to a fear of intimacy, going back to his past. Strange though it seems, a factor in this could be a fear of losing you.

You both need some help to work through this, as roll-on roll-off sex isn’t much fun for either of you.

My e-leaflets Addicted To Pornography and How To Thrill A Woman In Bed can help.

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