DEAR DEIDRE: MY friend made it clear she was unimpressed when I mentioned my chosen wedding venue.
She even commented that she’d heard it wasn’t good value and felt “run down”. I definitely got the impression she was trying to persuade us not to book it.
I know she once looked at marrying there, but I don’t think they could afford it. I‘m 28 and my fiancé’s 30.
We’ve been together for three years and got engaged six months ago.
I’m worried that if I book this venue it will cause a rift between us.
We have been friends for many years and she’s part of my bridal party. She is 29.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Weddings often bring out tensions in families and friends but don’t be afraid to say something.
It sounds as though she’s jealous but ask her gently how she feels about it and make sure she’s OK.
Just asking her this question might make her realise she was being a bit obvious with her jealousy. My support pack Dealing With Jealousy will help.
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