I can't get over the fact that my girlfriend slept with someone else even though I did too

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend and I both slept with other people while we were on a break and I can’t get over it.

I had sex with a girl I met on a night out.

I’d split up from my girlfriend about two weeks before and was feeling sorry for myself.

Then my girlfriend found out and slept with somebody who had been trying to get off with her for

She now says she misses me and wants to try again. I want to try but I can’t get over her sleeping with somebody else.

It’s all I think about. We are both 22.

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Caught my girl in bed with another man… then he did something I didn't expect

DEIDRE SAYS: That is your insecurity talking but the positive thing is that you both realised you wanted to be together – and neither of you cheated.

Each of us has a past.

We have to learn from our experiences and you must try to focus on how good you two are together rather than what happened while you were apart.

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