I fake orgasms to get sex over with. My partner is highly sexed. He’d get his leg over twice a day if he could.
I find the whole thing an annoying, sticky business. My best friend says it’s wrong of me to deceive him in this way and that I need to start being honest. Do I?
JANE SAYS: I can’t help feeling you’re missing out. You have an energetic and enthusiastic lover, yet you’re denying yourself satisfaction.
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Do you need to change your mindset and start getting the most out of each sexual encounter too? Do you have a mental or physical block that needs to be addressed? Talking to your guy and being honest would be a great start.
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I hate being in a relationship. When I was single I ate what I wanted and went to bed when I liked.
Now I feel like a caged animal. My partner is a nice enough bloke, but I don’t like sharing my space.
Recently he held an expensive party here for his oldest mates. They made a mess and did my head in.
At 11pm I screamed, and ordered everyone out. Now he’s saying that I must stop being so uptight. But I think I’d rather be alone than constantly annoyed.
JANE SAYS: If you finish with your boyfriend and shun other friends and family, then you could end up feeling lonely.
Being alone is one thing, but being lonely is another.
One day you might think: “How did that happen? Am I going to spend another whole day without speaking to anyone?”
OK, maybe your boyfriend’s party got out of control, but is there a compromise?
Can you be more tolerant? Maybe you and your partner could agree to live apart, but stay together as lovers?
Talk together and see where you both go from here, as I don’t think he’ll be too impressed with you either.
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