I fell for a woman who threatens to call the police if I contact her again

DEAR DEIDRE: THE woman I love said she’ll call the police if I contact her again.

I think she’s being controlled by her partner and I want to message her, but I’m worried I’ll get arrested.

I’m 29 and met this wonderful woman, 32, at work.

We became great friends and, even though I knew she had a boyfriend, I began to fall for her.

When I told her, she said she didn’t see me like that and we could only ever be mates.

She’s since been avoiding me at work and she ignored my Christmas card and the birthday gift I sent.

Last week, I messaged her. She replied: “Please don’t contact me again or I’ll call the police.”

I’m confused and worried about her.

Should I text to see if she’s all right?

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DEIDRE SAYS: You have no evidence she’s being controlled by her partner.

If anything, it sounds like she’s feeling harassed by you.

I know you have strong feelings for her, but she’s made it clear she doesn’t reciprocate them, and she’s not available.

You need to try to accept this and move on.

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