DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER dumping me because I was “too fat”, my ex is now dating a woman who is much larger than me.
I’m 23 and was with this guy for a year.
He’s 24 and not exactly Dwayne “the Rock” Johnson himself.
But he was always telling me to diet and exercise, saying he’d fancy me a lot more if I was slimmer.
When I refused to lose weight, he dumped me, as he’d threatened to.
I was starting to get over him and get my confidence back when I found out he had a new girlfriend. She’s at least three sizes bigger than me.
Now I’m really confused and wonder if it was my personality he didn’t like.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are far better off without this guy, who sounds shallow and controlling.
Perhaps he gets a kick out of making larger women feel bad about themselves and has now moved on to his next victim.
You should be with someone who loves you for who you are.
And if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself.
My support pack on Raising Self-Esteem should help you with building up your confidence.
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