DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN she left me, my wife accused me of being abusive – but I’ve never laid a hand on her.
I’m 51, she is 49 and we’ve been married for seven years.
We’ve been rowing over money recently.
She’s frivolous, which puts a lot of strain on me to keep our finances above board.
So I decided to freeze the joint account to help with our financial situation.
This sparked a huge row and she walked out on me saying that I’m abusive and controlling.
I don’t want to end our marriage over this but I have no idea how to remedy the situation.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I understand why you are careful with money but perhaps the outcome would have been more harmonious if you had consulted your wife first.
Abusive relationships don’t always include physical violence.
Visit womensaid.org.uk to understanding more.
Counselling would help if you want to save your marriage.
See tavistockrelationships.org.
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