Victoria – who famously dubbed her hubby 'Golden Balls' in an interview with the late Michael Parkinson – has also admitted she rarely wears clothes in bed, and always chooses sex over sleep.

Victoria also once admitted they had a rather kinky room separate from their master bedroom, saying: "There's a room like a tart's boudoir, with leopard print everywhere and a mirrored ceiling.

“Then there's our bedroom, which is quite virginal and white, with a big four-poster, old-oak bed."

Additionally, in 2008 Becks appeared in a very revealing Emporio Armani underwear advert, wearing nothing but a pair of tight white briefs showing off his 'package', causing his proud wife to comment: "It's huge. It's enormous. Massive.

"If I looked like that I'd walk down the streets in my panties too.

"I'm proud I still have a really good sex life with David. He is very much in proportion… He does have a huge one, though. He does. You can see it in the advert. It is all his. It is like a tractor exhaust pipe!"

Barbara says: “The stark difference between Victoria's 'virginal and white' sleeping space and the 'tart's boudoir' could be a physical manifestation of the dual aspects of her personality and sexual expression. 

"Psychologically, this compartmentalisation can be enriching, allowing for a clear demarcation between the sanctity of rest and the excitement of eroticism.

"Cultivating a space that reflects one's erotic self can serve as a powerful tool in keeping passion at the forefront of a relationship."

X-rated emojis & 'freak in bed' admission

It has been nearly 18 years since model Abbey Clancy, 37, and footballer Peter Crouch, 42, first met in a Liverpool bar in 2006, and their love life is far from dull.

While the pair wed in 2011, and now have four kids – daughters Sophia, 11, and Liberty, seven, and sons Johnny, four, and Jack, three – they still make time for each other.

The pair have made multiple sex admissions, most recently in their podcast.

One of the most hilarious being if Peter wants to "get lucky" he sends his wife a beaver and an aubergine emoji text.

Abbey has also previously described her bedroom style as “Lady on the street, freak in bed”, and has also confessed how she’d love to dress Peter as a sexy Viking after watching a TV drama and being turned on by the look.

In fact, the only thing that puts the pair off getting it on would be their cat being present, with Abbey saying: "I would never have sex in front of our cat. Let's just put that out there.”

Barbara says: "Their playful banter through emojis is an excellent example of how couples can keep the flame of desire burning. 

"It's a reminder that sexual communication doesn't always have to be verbal; it can be symbolic and non-direct, yet just as effective. 

"This method of flirtation is especially pertinent in long-term relationships where the novelty has faded. 

"Integrating playful, suggestive cues throughout the day can build anticipation and demonstrate a sustained interest in one's partner, which is crucial for keeping the romantic and sexual connection lively."

'He can't keep his hands off me'

While sex can dwindle for some married couples, Amanda Holden, 52, and her hubby Chris Hughes have no such issue since getting wed in 2008 – and are still having “primal sex” after two decades together. 

“He can’t keep his hands off me,” she told Fabulous magazine. “I actually tell him off because I say, ‘I don’t want to have a kiss and a grope while I’m trying to load the dishwasher’.”

The star has also previously let slip that she has a “magic box” of sex toys, saying: "I think I can say that we all know what we're talking about.

"It's early morning and there are children at home but everyone's got a magic box in their house, somewhere. Full of everything."

The couple don't just stick to the bedroom either, sometimes preferring to to mix things up, and getting frisky in the living room instead.

Speaking on Heart Radio, she said: "Our thing is that we watch a lot of box sets together so that can kill the passion – but during the introduction, you can get a few things done in that time."

Amanda also said she "really fancies" her husband still and often thinks, "Phwoar, who's that?"

Barbara says: “Amanda's quip about balancing domestic life with her  partner's amorous intentions highlights an often-overlooked aspect of long-term relationships: the intersection of the mundane with the passionate. 

“It's a humorous nod to the reality that desire doesn't wait for the perfect moment; it often arises amidst life's daily routines. 

“In my practice, I stress the importance of these spontaneous interactions as opportunities to reinforce attraction and affection."

Threesomes with singers

She recently got back together with former long-term love, rapper Stormzy, and Love Island presenter Maya Jama has shared a few risqué details about her sex life over the years.

Speaking on her podcast When Life Gives You Melons with former Love Island star Montana Brown, she also revealed how she'd consider a threesome – if it was with Beyonce.

If the opportunity arose for her boyfriend, she joked: "I’d be like, ‘Yeah, but I’ve gotta be involved.

"Yeah you can do it, but we do it together, not on his own. I’m snogging Beyonce too, you are not having that fun without me!'"

Barbara says: “Maya's openness and comfort in discussing these topics publicly challenges the stigma around sexual expression and encourages others to be open and honest about their desires. 

"For couples, this represents the importance of communication in a relationship; not only in sharing what they enjoy but also in how they might integrate each other's fantasies into their intimate life in a way that is respectful and consensual."

Mile high club

In 2019 model-turned actress Cara Delevigne, 31, cleverly cashed in on her sex appeal, and became the co-owner of sex toy firm Lora DiCarlo, saying she wanted “to take ownership of my orgasm”.

In a previous interview she also shared an insight into some of her realised sexual fantasies, and confessed to being a member of the 'mile high club'.

“I’ve had sex in planes a lot,” she revealed. “But I’ve always been caught. It’s super-hard not to get caught."

Adding to the risky locations she's got frisky, Cara also once revealed that she had sex in a lift too, saying: "He was going to drive me home and we had sex in the elevator.

"I mean it was so sexy. It was amazing."

Barbara adds: “Cara's admission of being part of the 'mile high club'  taps into the allure of risk and the desire to transcend conventional  boundaries.

"This search for thrill is a natural part of the human experience, and when channeled into a relationship, it can foster a sense of adventure and deepen the bond between partners.

"While joining the 'mile high club' is not practical for everyone, the underlying principle of seeking new experiences and thrills together is something that can reinvigorate a relationship and is often something I advocate for in sessions with clients."

There's certainly plenty to go at the next time you're beneath the sheets.

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