After 38 years with one man, I've lost all my confidence in bed | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER 38 years with one man, I’m now in a new relationship and keen to have sex, but I’ve lost all my confidence in bed.

My new boyfriend has only ever been with one woman too – his late wife – and we don’t know where to start.

I’m 60 and he’s 62. We have been seeing each other for three months.

We’ve kissed passionately, but when it’s clear we should head for the bedroom, we both make excuses.

It’s like we’ve forgotten what to do. It’s embarrassing!

We’re both in good shape for our age, so this isn’t about body confidence.

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It’s more about being rusty, and worried we will disappoint each other.

We’ve talked about it and feel we need some guidance.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Be brave and go for it!

Sex is different with every partner, however old you are or how many lovers you’ve had.

Communication and practice make perfect.


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