DEAR DEIDRE: AM I the bad guy for wanting to be more sexually adventurous with my girlfriend?
We only ever make love in the missionary position.
It’s always the same routine and feels so dull.
I know exactly how things will go and, if I’m honest, it is getting quite boring.
I am 29 and my girlfriend is 27. We get along very well and everything else is great in the relationship.
But I want to make our sex life fun.
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There are things I would like to try in the bedroom, such as different positions, toys etc, but she isn’t up for anything I suggest.
I have tried talking to her about it a few times but she isn’t interested and I always end up feeling like I’m being too pushy.
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A lack of confidence can be very inhibiting. So work on building up her confidence and encouraging her to relax and get in touch with physical sensation.
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