I had sex with my dog walker but now he's ghosting me

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD mind-blowing sex with my dog-walker who I’ve known for years – and I can’t get it out of my head.

I’m 56, he’s 31 and has worked for me for ten years.

We’ve become firm friends. As he’s matured, I have found myself increasingly attracted to him but I never acted on it.

Then, last week when we went to the pub, he came back to mine and we kissed. It was so tender and lovely.

I invited him upstairs and he readily accepted.

We had sex twice that night and once after breakfast the next morning.

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But now he’s not returning my calls and is ghosting me.

I feel bereft and want my mate back – or my lover, if he’s willing.

DEIDRE SAYS: You may have to accept that a relationship isn’t what he wants.

You’re at different life stages and he may feel he has crossed a boundary.

Leave it a week then contact him, suggesting you draw a line under what happened and hope he can come over to walk your dog as usual.

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