My biggest fantasy is for my wife to have sex with another man but she won't agree

DEAR DEIDRE: I ASKED my wife if she would fulfil my fantasy and have sex with another man.

She is OK with me sharing my fantasy with her but says it is not going to happen for real.

I am 36, she is 32 and we have been married for four years.

I miss her terribly when she goes to visit her family four hours away, and I get into my fantasies.

I have no intention of ever cheating on her but I would love her to fulfil my dreams.

She says I can text her when she is away about what I would like.

Recently we did role-play but that’s as far as she will ever go. Any ideas?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Be very careful because your wife may feel very hurt if she thinks you really want to share her with another man.

How would you feel if she cheated on you?

Can you work out what that fantasy is really about for you?

My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex could help spice things up.

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